|Forget Me Nots|
Nora Ephron died this past week and I can't stop thinking about her. I was only vaguely familiar with her work. I read an article in the New York Times that covered her career. The article noted her last book, written 2 years ago, was called, "I Remember Nothing." I laughed, knowing exactly what that feels like and thinking, "that's my world". I read on, turns out she's written/co-written/directed some of my all time favorite movies; you know the ones you can watch over and over and you're waiting for the perfect-pitch dialogue? When Harry Met Sally, You've Got Mail, Sleepless in Seattle, Mixed Nuts, Michael, Julie & Julia. Her first screenplay was Silkwood; remember how powerful that movie was and Cher in the title role (who was wonderful).
What I'm trying to get at is I feel that I have been injected with a shot of a new meaning to my writing Not to say I had writers block. I can always write something if I simply make the time to sit down and do it. My issue isn't that I don't have any ideas. Mine is that the mind moves so fast it makes it challenging to slow the thoughts and ideas down to actually make sense of them and get the words/ideas out of my head and onto the computer or notebook or (now) iPad.
I took myself to the library and checked out "I Remember Nothing", which I read in a few days. I laughed - out loud - through the entire book. How many books have you read that you can say that about? Now I want to go back and read everything she's written and watch all her movies.
But, I also want to write new pieces. She was a journalist, a screen writer and she wrote satire. After reading her book I've been thinking, "I can write satire." I thought you had to be cynical and have somewhat of a negative view of the world and not have much of a beating heart. Turns out, like Nora, you can have a big beating heart and see things/have observations and be able to write about them with wit and intelligence and not hurt people's feelings in the process. (although the truth is we never have any control over how a person chooses to take anything).
So there you have it. I'm headed over to Netflix to begin a "Sunday with Nora Ephron's Movies Marathon".
Then I'm headed to the library to check out, "I Feel Bad About My Neck", "Heartburn", and anything else on the shelves. There is nothing more gratifying as a creative spirit than to be infused with big inspiration.
Thanks Nora, you are number one on my growing list of heroines that make me proud to be a woman in this world.